Sometimes I can be judgmental. Actually, I am judgmental most of the time. It’s not easy for me to not be
judgmental; honestly it’s very easy, it’s second nature. Within my judgment I create the ability
to be more than judgmental, I create the space for bitterness, envy, anger,
hate, jealousy, and just about any other similar emotion or thought you could
think of. That’s what judgment
does; it creates room for something greater. Think of a courtroom and the judgment passed out by a jury
or a judge. Their decision, or
judgment, creates more room for either freedom or captivity.
Judgment stems from some form of insecurity. Conscientiously or not, I have a bit of
insecurity inside of me and it plays itself out in my judgment of the people in
my environment. Everyone deals
with insecurity and judging others to some degree. However, insecurity and judgment, when left out of check,
can breed all those feelings and issues mentioned above; hate, anger
bitterness, etc.
From what I remember of my world history classes in school,
Hitler was a very angry man.
Obviously we all know the horrific atrocities committed by Hitler and
the Nazi party. It’s easy to say
that Hitler was very simply an evil man.
Don’t misunderstand what I am saying; I am in no way defending
Hitler. (I can’t believe I just
wrote that sentence.) Anyways, my
memory tells me that Hitler wanted to become an artist one day. He went to school and studied art. He spent the next years working on his
craft and one day believed he had a painting worthy of praise. He decided to bring his piece to a
local gallery where the curator laughed at him and sent him away telling him he
was no good.
Because of his hatred, his bitterness, his envy, his
insecurity, and his anger, Hitler eventually murders millions of innocent
people. His hatred was sparked by
this one encounter and given the time and fuel it needed, that spark turned
into a massive flame that overtook a man and destroyed millions of lives. I don’t believe Hitler was born as the
evil person he became. I think the
evil took root when he allowed the insecurity and judgment and hatred to enter
and breed.
It is far too easy for anyone of us to become a person we
were not meant to become when we allow our hurts and insecurities turn into
judgment which can very easily lead to hatred, bitterness, anger, and
strife. I am not saying anyone of
us has the ability to become the next Hitler. I am saying that we have the ability to become something we
were never created to become when we don’t check ourselves.
Some of the easiest ways to fuel our issues are to isolate
and meditate. When we become angry
and bitter we often meditate on the encounter that caused us to become bitter,
and angry, and hateful. We play
out the scenario in our minds and we talk to ourselves and imagine what we
would say if the person were standing in the same room. The other fuel is isolation. We can become embarrassed or even more
insecure and so we isolate ourselves from community and from familiar
environments. In our isolation we
very easily add fuel to the fire of our bitterness.
Don’t let bitterness, anger, hatred, judgment, and
insecurity rob you of becoming who you are and who you were meant to be. Don’t let isolation keep you from
growing in community. Forgive
those who’ve hurt you no matter what the offense has been. Move on with your life. Extinguish the spark before it turns
into a fire you cannot control.
Forgive.
Jesus told His disciples that if they walk into church and
remember an offense they have against someone or an offense their brother has
against them, they should walk out of the church right then and there, go find
their brother and make restitution.
He told Peter, the most offensive man in the bible, to forgive those who
hurt him 7 X 70. In other words,
always forgive. There is NEVER a
good enough reason to withhold forgiveness from ANYONE.
Go ahead, pick up your phone and call the people in your
life who’ve hurt you or those people you’ve hurt. Find them and make restitution. Allow forgiveness to take hold in your life. Because we want the world to know us by
the love we share with one another.
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